Advice on Thai guys instead

[RobinVirant]

It's a joke, mate.

I don't know.
I mean I married a second time only on the condition that we have two children.
If she renegged I would have walked.
Bloody pity she agreed in retrospect. She accused me of all sorts of things, and denied me access to them for 12 years.
It's only been in the last two years I have seen them again.
Sorry

[BUCKY]

Would a Thai man leave his wife if she doen't want to give him more children?

If a man wants to leave the wife, he can find 101 reasons (or excuses) to do it.

[Chai]

If your partner cheats on you while both had agreed that you two were going to see each other exclusively, toss your partner in the gutter and forget about him/her. Start finding someone new. Believe in the adage that says "there's a million fish in the sea and no two are exactly alike."

[BUCKY]

Bucky, The above reaction only proves that you really have given an effective advice. LOL
Kudos, friend!

Ha I just read this post of yours. So whatever happened to that Andy guy?

[wendie]

hehe yes....so suspenseful!!!

[pisces77]

If 2 person are not happy or cannot get along with each together, why do we have to force ourselves to do so? If for the sake of children, we can try to work things out. But if things seems not possible and both are feeling unhappy with the marriage, why not end it? Why force ourselves just for the sake of being together when love is no longer there? When there is no love, how can there be happiness between a couple?

I will tell him that I want to stop this relationship. I will tell him if its really the case of no love between him and his wife, he should consider what to do with this marriage before starting another relationship.

Its tiring this way, wanted so much to see him but he's far away in Bangkok and I'm here in Singapore. Wanted so much to talk to him but sometimes its inconvenient to do so. I'm really a bit tired.

I've ever told him that I wouldn't mind him taking his children if he really divoced. I like children and I'm one who can get along with most kinda people.
:-/ I think this is the best way............ as for the future..... just have to see how it goes.............

[eebrak]

i read the article about the thai minor wife..and is wondering if this idea is generally accepted in thailand? there is a thai guy that i like.. i am from singapore. i heard from his friends that he has a girlfriend in thailand but when i asked him he said tt he does not... so actually, how does he feel?

[bassai]

Not speaking particularly to Thai men, but men in general, is that if they can have their cake and eat it it too, they will. Meaning that's it a pretty safe bet to have 2 girlfriends when they're in 2 different countries. Plenty of men would not see that as a problem for them.

[Marie]

i read the article about the thai minor wife..and is wondering if this idea is generally accepted in thailand? there is a thai guy that i like.. i am from singapore. i heard from his friends that he has a girlfriend in thailand but when i asked him he said tt he does not... so actually, how does he feel?

Realistically speaking, this is a question which other people cannot answer for you. We can only deduce--or guess. And we could be wrong. You need to find it out yourself--on a first hand basis. And while things are in limbo, do not make any deductions which might only mislead you. Relationships should be based on REALITY if they should be healthy.

Now, if it turns out that he likes you and you also like him inspite of the fact that he has another girlfriend (if he treally has one in Thailand), be ready to face the consequences. Can you change the situation or not? If not, how would you feel about it?

Stick with your values. Do not put up with someone or something that will crush your self-esteem.

Good luck!

[eebrak]

thanks guys(: might be going to thailand in october will update again yeah