Most Thai men tend to stray

[Anatta]

Pisces77, It is always easy to offer advice to others when they are in a situation, but I know it is very difficult when one is actually in the unconditional love situation. Especially when someone says "he cannot live without you ” or “ he need you ” .

As all that grasping and tension causes you both more suffering than good. So! the most better for you is - to find the way to letting your heart feel free from this painful and hurt...

However, I understand that it is difficult to let go of those we care about, of those who we love. Ultimately only you can make the decision - however hard that may be - I feel for you because it is not easy to let go of someone who you feel needs you but you have to decide what is best for the welfare of your own mind.

I hope that you will find the wisdom and courage to make the decision that is best for you and to do it with compassion for yourself and your partner, also with his family.

All the bestfor you,

[BUCKY]

Funny... in another Thai forum, a Thai woman was asking why Thai husband tend to stray and she's suspecting her husband is having an affair.



Thailand :1 Singapore: 0
Not including the AIS deal.

[pisces77]

What makes you think he wont separate with his wife? He feels that his wife doesn't care much for him. Or shall I tell him straight that unless he divorced or else I'm going to step out of this relationship. I'm trying to test if he's serious about me. Any other good idea to test a Thai man married man if he's serious? Anyone has any bright ideas?

[FaranginPhetch]

I understand that,

He feels that his wife doesn't care much for him.

Hell, thats one that is in use in every country in the world., "She doesn't understand me",,,"She doesn't really love me",,,,"She treats me mean and never listens to me"

Lot of em, wanna hear some more.?

[BUCKY]

What makes you think he wont separate with his wife? He feels that his wife doesn't care much for him. Or shall I tell him straight that unless he divorced or else I'm going to step out of this relationship. I'm trying to test if he's serious about me. Any other good idea to test a Thai man married man if he's serious? Anyone has any bright ideas?

Great, dump the wife and kids for you and marry you.
Next time he meet a better woman, I guess we should advise him to dump you for the better woman too.
Good luck to you!

[BUCKY]

Lot of em, wanna hear some more.?

She's not giving me enough.

or how about the most honest one?

I'm just bored with her and I want someone new (especially a foreigner so I can boast to my male friends and colleages.).

[FaranginPhetch]

Why would he brag about running around with a broad that willingly goes out chipping with a known married man with kids??
Damn sure not one to be proud of..But you are correct.