I missed the contact of my thai lover

[nok_lam]

I knew a thai girlfriend for three months. We phoned and e-mailed to each other daily in these three months. I also went to bangkok to meet her each month. I also decided to move to bangkok for opening my shop so that I can stay in bangkok with her.
Recently, she said that her family had problem and went back to home in Phangnga. Now I lost contact with her.
Now I am missing her very much....
I am ready to go to Phangnga and try to find her out.
Any mean to find her out? Post advertisement on newspaper? or what?

[BUCKY]

good luck....

[dirk3]

How long you lost contact with her, 1 week?
When her family have some problems she need time to solve them.
And at this time she don't think of you. Her family is more important.

[djaidee]

If she really likes/loves you then she will contact you again. She still has your E-Mail and Phone Number right ? So give her some time for the family problems.
If she don`t contacts you then it is better this way, she would not be the right person for you.
So don`t waste your time and money to find her; it will be of no result as Phang Nga is a Province (not just a City) and she could be anywhere.

[nok_lam]

thanks, djaidee.
Below is her last email to me...
" Today, I back to Bangkok for move things and come back to live in Phangnga. My family has some problems which I can't explain to you. I must to back home for take care my father and my mother who are old. They want me to take care. About my study, I already contact with my university. I can study and exam from mail. And my brother move to study at the South of Campus where is in Songkhla. I'm very sad about the matter that I tell you today. Hereafter, I may not contact with you. I would like we stop our relationship. Thanks for everythings that you gave me. I'll keep them the best. I may not come to Bangkok. Hereafter, we may not meet again. Take care of yourself."

She claimed that the communication at her home is not good so that she cannot contact with me.

I knew Phangnga is big. That is the reason I want to put an ad on newspaper.
I don't think that she cheated my love.

[djaidee]

So why would she really end the relationship. If nothing went wrong like you think then there must be some secrets she has.
If she really wants to see you then she could as well give you her Address in Phang Nga.
Write her a last E-Mail asking for more informations like Address in Phang Nga, Phone Number (even from a Neighbour or any Mobile Phone Number) etc. In Thailand almost every Family has a Mobile Phone. Her Family don`t seems to be poor as they can afford that she and her brother study at University. For many Families this is far to expensive to send their children to University. So for sure they have a Mobile Phone; it is a Status Symbol and even almost every Teenager has one.
So if she don`t replies your E-Mail anymore why put an Ad in the Newspaper It will be useless.
Sorry about that, but if she don`t wants to contact you again then she sure has her reasons which she wouldn`t tell you.

[nok_lam]

djaidee, Thanks.
She explained to be before that her home is many mountains so the signal is not good.... I don't know because I never have not been in Phangnga. Is it not easy to find an internet shop in Phangnga?

[nok_lam]

but i really want to search her out. Any suggestion? I just want to inform her that no matter what the problem is, I also want to solve with her together. Initially, I also thought that she with me was because of my money. But she knows that I am not rich... she never ask me for money. Just want me to go to Bangkok to see her. I am really care of her situation.
I hope somebody can help me on this.

[djaidee]

This can be true, many times upcountry you don`t have Mobile Phone Connection. But at least I bet that they have a Phone (with Wire) at Home. So why can`t she just call you from there or even give you this Number
Also I think that once in a while she will surely check her E-Mail Account, so she will see your E-Mail.
But if you really want to try finding her, do you know her complete Name (also Surname), if so you could try finding her brother who studies at University in Songkhla. There must be a Student Registration or you can E-Mail the University. Or even better, do you know her University ? So better search for her there. If the University said she can study by Mail they must know her Address in Phang Nga.
I assume that her University was in Bangkok, so better go there and ask. Or maybe you even know some of her University Friends. Try to find them and I bet they know how to contact her (Address, Phone Number etc.)
But again, I wouldn`t do it. I could imagine that even her Parents don`t know that you where together.

[nok_lam]

Thanks, djaidee. Do you always work or travel to bangkok so that you are quite familiar to bangkok?
Yes, I know her full name... I know her university because I visited there with her for registration. But if I go to the university for checking her details, will the staff accept my checking? I know her address in Bangkok. She was living with her younger sister and she is also studying in Bangkok. But I am not sure if her sister also moved out...
May be, her parents do not know our relationship for some reasons.
But right now, the most important to me is to find her out because I miss her very much. TO be frank, she is not very beautiful but we are happy together.... I am learning thai so that we can communicte better as her english is not so good.