I missed the contact of my thai lover

[trangam]

You will do what you have to do Nok_lam. Maybe, whatever your final experience you will come back to list your experience and advise! However, would an advertisement not make her embarrased? It would be public and her friends and family would see it?

[visionchaser45]

Quote[/b] ]AAAWWW Paul you are so harsh.

He is, after all, the relationship expert.

[nok_lam]

First of all, thanks for the advices from above brothers.
It seems that all of you thought that she just made use of me, with me just for my money and then left me because she found another rich man... Is it a formula of a thail girl dating a non-thai man?
She is my first thai girl friend. In the past three months, I really believe that the relationship really works. She helped me a lot on setting up my business. Finally, I told her I was going to sell my property in HK and moved to Bkk and stayed with her. In the last phone call in a morning, I also had a gut feeling that something was going wrong... because she said she had head-ache seriously and said that she loved me very much... The she left and dis-appeared. If she really cheats my love, I think that I can learn it and stop the relationship myself. But she seems not... she went to be an operator each day as a part time job in a pizza company and went to study in afternoon. When I went to bkk to meet her, I also tried to 'test' her to go to expensive restuarant for meals but she always said no and just went to Pizza Hut or fast food shop. I alwasy suggested to take taxi but she alternatively sugggested to take boat which is cheap and bad smell. She went to attend english course on saturday. It is very impressive... So I am very serious to that relatioship.
I will go to bkk next week... I hope I can find her and the fact out.

[BUCKY]

Quote[/b] (nok_lam @ Oct. 11 2005,10:44)]First of all, thanks for the advices from above brothers.
It seems that all of you thought that she just made use of me, with me just for my money and then left me because she found another rich man... Is it a formula of a thail girl dating a non-thai man?

Paul's just being sterotyping..... not all Thai women is like this.. Paul's just unfortunate to attract this kinda Thai women all the time..

I wish you all the best and be able to find her, meet her and have a good talk with her. Good luck!

[nok_lam]

Thanks, Bucky. I really I can contact her again.
But anyway, I am intending to start my business in bkk. This shop is our dream. I am gathering all information. Hope one day I can invite you to my shop.

[paul_au]

Do they have anti stalking laws in Thailand like they do in Australia. Because technically you could be breaking the law.
I remember this woman who was stalking me, after I refused to go to bed with her, she started making baby noises over the phone, as she was fantasizing she had my baby.

[Jerome]

Quote[/b] (paul_au @ Oct. 11 2005,21:25)]Do they have anti stalking laws in Thailand like they do in Australia. Because technically you could be breaking the law.
I remember this woman who was stalking me, after I refused to go to bed with her, she started making baby noises over the phone, as she was fantasizing she had my baby.

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rathlmho
Beautiful Paul, , that is classic.
I love it.
Tell us what happened, did you get the cops on to her?

[nok_lam]

Paul,
What do you mean "Stalking"? Do you mean that the girl cheated you that she had your baby?

[BUCKY]

Quote[/b] (nok_lam @ Oct. 11 2005,19:54)]Paul,
What do you mean "Stalking"? Do you mean that the girl cheated you that she had your baby?

"stalking" as in.... weird people, hiding 1 corner, spying on u.. following u all around? U know.. the "dog team" in HK doing "stalking" around stars all the time?

Paul has a wonderful imagination too....

[Jake]

Quote[/b] (paul_au @ Oct. 11 2005,19:25)]Do they have anti stalking laws in Thailand like they do in Australia. Because technically you could be breaking the law.

Although it doesn't appear to have reached that extreme yet as far as we know.
Paul makes a valid point about this turning into what might be interpreted as a stalking event with potentually serious consequences if this gets out of hand.
It is easy to imagine that even an innocent effort to make
contact now could cause distress/alarm to this lady and her family and who knows how they might react.
She was very clear about her feelings to end the relationship.
You should set a sensible limit to your effort to make contact.. a single phone call or letter or email...if at all..nothing more.. no matter what the result.
Accept the rejection as part of living a normal life..some don't even get as far into a relationship as you did.
Sounds like you have alot going for you nok lam... move on in life and you'll surely find a more worthy partner